FAQ
How to RSVP and by when?
​Please let us know your attendance by May 1st, 2026. You can let us know by clicking on the RSVP button on the topright corner of this website, or go to this link: https://withjoy.com/tom-and-rivera/rsvp.
When you get to the RSVP page, you can enter your name and continue to respond to our RSVP questions.
I can't find my name in the RSVP page
To ensure that only our intended guests can RSVP to our wedding, we've locked our RSVP page to our guest list. Please enter your first and last names in the RSVP page to proceed. However if your name doesn't register on the page, please check your name's spelling, or try to use a different combination of your first and last names. If you're still unable to find your name, feel free to contact Vera or Tom to sort this out.
Can I bring someone to the wedding?
Please enter your name on the RSVP link to see how many guests you can bring.
Can I bring my child(ren) to the wedding?
Please enter your name on the RSVP link to see how many guests you can bring, including child(ren).
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We empathize with the struggle of keeping your child entertained at a wedding. If you're planning on bringing a child to our wedding, we'll be able to provide an air-conditioned room in one of the villas as a temporary daycare. In return, we would kindly appreciate some quiet times during important moments of the wedding, such as the ceremony or speeches.
Dress code​
We’d love for our guests to join us in semi-formal attire. If you would like to join in on the color theme of the wedding, we would love our guests to wear any of these 2 colors as a part of their outfit, however big or small. Be mindful that Bali weather is around 30 degrees Celsius.
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Gentlemen: please wear a shirt. We understand as the weather is hot, you may prefer to wear jeans or some other light fabrics, which is completely acceptable. Batiks are also welcome.
Ladies: a midi-length cocktail dress, a full-length casual dress, a slip dress, a dressy skirt and top, or an elegant pantsuit would be ideal.
Do you have a gift registry?
The only gift we want is your presence at our celebration of love. However, we understand that some of our guests might insist on giving a physical gift, for whatever reason. Also acknowledging that this is a multicultural marriage, we've decided to provide ways for our guests to show their appreciation or wishes for us.
First, there will be an 'Angpao Box' at the wedding venue for our guests who prefer to give an envelope of cash.
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Second, to make it easy for our guests who prefer to give a physical gift choose something that we know we'll love and actually need, we're working on a wedding gift registry.
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To reiterate our wishes, we are not expecting anything other than your presence. The only thing that keeps us excited is celebrating our relationship milestone with our loved ones.
What to know about Bali or Indonesia?
We've prepared a guide for you about Bali. This guide includes the important things about Bali and Indonesia, we would really encourage you to read the safety guide.